"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How does one "fake" a social life when he doesn't have one?

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Volunteer. Find a cause or organization you believe in and join it. It will help you meet new people, give you some purpose in life and make you feel better about yourself by helping others. It's no downside.

I do work with two groups right now and I've met a lot of prominent people in my area because of it. Some have even become clients and a few friends. It's not about pickup, but there usually are some good looking women around, just be carful and guard your reputation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Volunteer work is chill to meet people, I do volunteer work and most volunteers are women. Lots of women there, both the other volunteers and women who come by for help.

Or if you are really low on spare time, try salsa or ballroom dancing. It takes just an hour every week. You get to talk to each woman you dance with right away very handy. When you level up to silver after one season, there is a huge lack of guys, they hire in guys to dance who are mostly gay, so you can pick any girl as your partner, swap partners around any week whatever.
 
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