Women don't seem to care for looks as much as us guys do. Personality can make the world of difference in attracting and keeping a girl. Alot of teachings here focus on eliminating fear and tips on approaches and closing the deal. But very little on helping one develop their personality. So how does one go about improving their personality?
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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How does one develop a great personality?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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most of it is, unfortunately, formed starting from the day you are in the womb, and nearly set in stone by the time you enter high school, but you can 'act' really well and just be nice, and respect everyone, until they do something to lose that respect, you will be fine.Originally posted by Sir Don
Women don't seem to care for looks as much as us guys do. Personality can make the world of difference in attracting and keeping a girl. Alot of teachings here focus on eliminating fear and tips on approaches and closing the deal. But very little on helping one develop their personality. So how does one go about improving their personality?
personality develops from birth, but can still be greatly influenced by what you do today. It can be influenced by who you hang out with, what you do, and most importantly (IMO) experiences.
For instance, immerse yourself in different cultures, and it will greatly develop your personality. Ask anyone who has been travelling, and they will tell you that it changed their personality and outlook on life to some degree.
Read books, watch the news, keep up on current affairs. FInd out about things that interest you. Find about about some things that don't interest you!! You might be surprised.
All these kinds of things add to you as a person, and as a result can shape your personality. Doing these kinds of things give you more to talk about, and can involve you in more conversations. Slowly but surely the personallity shines through.
And of course realise that no matter how good you think your personality is, you will still have personality clashes with plenty of people!!
For instance, immerse yourself in different cultures, and it will greatly develop your personality. Ask anyone who has been travelling, and they will tell you that it changed their personality and outlook on life to some degree.
Read books, watch the news, keep up on current affairs. FInd out about things that interest you. Find about about some things that don't interest you!! You might be surprised.
All these kinds of things add to you as a person, and as a result can shape your personality. Doing these kinds of things give you more to talk about, and can involve you in more conversations. Slowly but surely the personallity shines through.
And of course realise that no matter how good you think your personality is, you will still have personality clashes with plenty of people!!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
that really depends though...what do you define great as? The epitome of a perfectionist?
Which direction do you want your personality to grow in?
Lazy, arrogant, rude snob....modest,friendly,outgoing,laid back...something to think about.
Often the friends/people you hang around often reflect a similar if not the same personality/interests as yours.
Which direction do you want your personality to grow in?
Lazy, arrogant, rude snob....modest,friendly,outgoing,laid back...something to think about.
Often the friends/people you hang around often reflect a similar if not the same personality/interests as yours.
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Originally posted by Sir Don
Women don't seem to care for looks as much as us guys do. Personality can make the world of difference in attracting and keeping a girl. Alot of teachings here focus on eliminating fear and tips on approaches and closing the deal. But very little on helping one develop their personality. So how does one go about improving their personality?
This has been pretty much the only post on this thread I read, but I may have an answer to it.
You have pretty much answered you're own question, sort of. By elmination fear of pretty much anything, you become a happier (for lack of a better word) person, which makes your personality better, because it makes you feel better, which ups your confidence, which gives you a good personality. It's like one huge circle.
Also, I have a feeling you may be talking about in initial conversations. I know, right now, for me, my conversations are not that great, but it will come with practice, and once again, making your personality shine through.
Furthermore, if a girl sees that you are not afraid to approach her, she will wonder, if done right, what else you are all about. If you use the tips on this board (I've used some, but it's difficult when starting out, which I am just starting out), a good personality can't help but be seen.
I hope that helps.
Re: Re: How does one develop a great personality?
I really don't have problem carrying conversation. comes with my job. Of course the conversation might not be as interesting as I would like it to be.Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
Also, I have a feeling you may be talking about in initial conversations. I know, right now, for me, my conversations are not that great, but it will come with practice, and once again, making your personality shine through.
That's also the question I asked earlier, what constitude a "great" personality. What are the components?Originally posted by solo1
that really depends though...what do you define great as? The epitome of a perfectionist?
Which direction do you want your personality to grow in?
Lazy, arrogant, rude snob....modest,friendly,outgoing,laid back...something to think about.
Often the friends/people you hang around often reflect a similar if not the same personality/interests as yours.
The aspects you listed. I can say, I'm laid back, outgoing (half the time), friendly, modest (most times), arrogant (sometimes), lazy (for sure). I'm not rude nor a snob.