"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How does one deal with non-HBs?

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floydtheater07

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Ok, so, I have my eye on this one girl from my school. We had a class together last year and Drama Club together, so we used to tlak a lot, and I think I'd like to go out with her. But the problem is, in the past, all the girls I have gotten have been HBs, and known it. All my ****y and funny mannerisms worked on them easily, cuz they are used to guys fawning over them.

Now, don't worry, this girl is wonderful looking, but she doesn't flaunt her beauty, has never had a boyfriend (and I could not imagine why not), and is generally very modest. Does the ****y and funny routine work on girls like this? I know not to use neg-hits, but this girl isn't used to guys doing anything to have sex with her. Any suggestions on picking up a girl of this type?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just do it less intense and maybe less much. Calibrate
 
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****y and Funny will still work on this girl, why? because it shows confidence. All C/F does is show confidence and we know women can smell confidence from a mile away. Women love and are attracted to confidence in men, this will never change, it is hardwired in their brains. I wouldn't use neg hits on this nice girl though it might backfire. Neg hits are for HB's and overall b1tches.
 
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i would use ****y funny but not so many negs

negs only work if the girl is on a high pedestal (if she is pretty and knows it). if this girl has low self esteem, she may take the negs to heart and you may hurt her feelings.

so youll have to decide what is appropriate based on the situation. but still be confident and a DJ
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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