"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How does one deal with non-HBs?

floydtheater07

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Ok, so, I have my eye on this one girl from my school. We had a class together last year and Drama Club together, so we used to tlak a lot, and I think I'd like to go out with her. But the problem is, in the past, all the girls I have gotten have been HBs, and known it. All my ****y and funny mannerisms worked on them easily, cuz they are used to guys fawning over them.

Now, don't worry, this girl is wonderful looking, but she doesn't flaunt her beauty, has never had a boyfriend (and I could not imagine why not), and is generally very modest. Does the ****y and funny routine work on girls like this? I know not to use neg-hits, but this girl isn't used to guys doing anything to have sex with her. Any suggestions on picking up a girl of this type?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Holland

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Just do it less intense and maybe less much. Calibrate
 

Joe The Homophobe

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****y and Funny will still work on this girl, why? because it shows confidence. All C/F does is show confidence and we know women can smell confidence from a mile away. Women love and are attracted to confidence in men, this will never change, it is hardwired in their brains. I wouldn't use neg hits on this nice girl though it might backfire. Neg hits are for HB's and overall b1tches.
 

isotope

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i would use ****y funny but not so many negs

negs only work if the girl is on a high pedestal (if she is pretty and knows it). if this girl has low self esteem, she may take the negs to heart and you may hurt her feelings.

so youll have to decide what is appropriate based on the situation. but still be confident and a DJ
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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