"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How does one deal with non-HBs?

floydtheater07

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Ok, so, I have my eye on this one girl from my school. We had a class together last year and Drama Club together, so we used to tlak a lot, and I think I'd like to go out with her. But the problem is, in the past, all the girls I have gotten have been HBs, and known it. All my ****y and funny mannerisms worked on them easily, cuz they are used to guys fawning over them.

Now, don't worry, this girl is wonderful looking, but she doesn't flaunt her beauty, has never had a boyfriend (and I could not imagine why not), and is generally very modest. Does the ****y and funny routine work on girls like this? I know not to use neg-hits, but this girl isn't used to guys doing anything to have sex with her. Any suggestions on picking up a girl of this type?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Holland

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Just do it less intense and maybe less much. Calibrate
 

Joe The Homophobe

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****y and Funny will still work on this girl, why? because it shows confidence. All C/F does is show confidence and we know women can smell confidence from a mile away. Women love and are attracted to confidence in men, this will never change, it is hardwired in their brains. I wouldn't use neg hits on this nice girl though it might backfire. Neg hits are for HB's and overall b1tches.
 

isotope

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i would use ****y funny but not so many negs

negs only work if the girl is on a high pedestal (if she is pretty and knows it). if this girl has low self esteem, she may take the negs to heart and you may hurt her feelings.

so youll have to decide what is appropriate based on the situation. but still be confident and a DJ
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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