"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How does it feel knowing you will always lose to a Beta?

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How does it feel knowing you will always lose to a beta?

There are too many betas out there.

Orbiting while you are studying how to "Win" and aren't even on the radar.

Having social circles.

Meeting girls and their friends.

Befriending them.

Leaving the club with girls.

Getting laid.

Getting relationships.

Getting married.

Never needing to study game for years nor train other frustrated DJs who are losing to betas everyday.

Never bothering to read the DJ Bible.

Never caring about green dots.

A DJ is always on the losing end of the fvck stick.

Betas aren't worried about the next man. They are in it to win it.

Beta game trumps all. :D :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Beta and alpha is the same thing. If you identify with either you're essentially screwed.

It all comes down to feeling you're already enough, that's what most of us are struggling with. There's something we don't like about ourselves, and instead of addressing the real issue we diffuse it with "spinning plates" and improving game. Maybe in that process we learn who we truly are. The sad thing is though that the best game is no game at all, and so many fail to realize this.

So to answer your question, I feel good for the "betas" who make it.
 

CrimsonPanther

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first: i don't lose to betas or alphas, if they manage to bone girls. i do it just the same, and i don't care about those i "lose to others"
second: improving game does not mean lurking this forum all the time without going out. successful guys learn here, AND go out meeting girls, both contributing to improving game :p in the process they win some poon and lose some poon.
third: obvious troll is obvious. your life must suck badly if you think this is a contest.
 

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99 percent sure OP is Humbleninja.

Anyway ninja has a point.

I'm always seeing betas blissfully happy.
And sometimes wish I could be one.

I think my parents messed me up too much as a child, for any meaningful relationships.

Hence no girlfriend or friends.

Same situation with my brother.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
I'm always seeing betas blissfully happy.
And sometimes wish I could be one.
this is where many "red pill" and "dj" go in the wrong direction.
they think they have to be sad, and bitter about the reality. but it is not so.
improving game CAN and SHOULD be fun. and by no means should it be the main thing in someone's life. some people like to play tennis, some people KNOW how to play tennis. same here. the ignorant amateurs are happy, but they get scraps mostly. and the betas so praised by the new troll on the block are those who get to be left for a guy who knows how to manipulate women. or not. but who cares really?
NOTHING replaces practice. all this info on this site helps, but it will never replace it. so if some loner comes here to learn how to be a veritable casanova, he will only be a bitter genious with a lot of info, but zero practice.
the ignorant happy(?) fools practice, get rejected, get accepted, they do their thang, but those with game should do the same, and be happy with the difference that they GET BETTER with every experience.
i must say after some experience, that not getting poon is a CHOICE. everyone can get some if they want. lower standards enough, and just try. i think those who cry here about not getting women are the same kind, like those women with 1000 orbiters whining noone likes them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is HumbleNinja with a different account. What a pathetic troll.
 

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Lol, ya you mean like the one girl I'm banging now who has been with a dude for 5 years, is desperate to leave but feels she can't cause kids are involved...

We go out, she spends his money, I bang her and send her home to the jackass who does all the stuff you seem to value...yeah, she's with him, but he pays a lot for that...she pays to be with me while he thinks she's out with her friends...lol, oh well, at least he can parade around with a good looking girl and have her as his "girlfriend"...too bad he tries to "make love" to her when she wants to be f***ed hard...
 
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