How does game change in a relationship?

[wonderer]

How does game change? Or does it?

-I used to text only to set-up dates, now I'm finding myself texting more, still try to make it not everyday

-We meet once a week, this is how its always been, is this good?

-Being a mystery, how important is this now? I find myself telling her what I'm up to more now, only if its something that will boost my SMV.

I cant think of what else has changed right now but a lot of this forum is the initial meetings and getting the lay, how does game work in a relationship?

 

[Serenity]

Between the time I met my girlfriend over a year ago and now there's little difference in the dynamic between us. I liked the way she was from the start and she liked me the way I was from the start. We still don't have text conversations, we only use texts to notify each other life if she won't be home because she's dropping by her mother etc. Even in the beginning we mostly used texts to plan dates and kept texting as a planning tool.

Don't change something that's good and works. If your game is good and it has become a part of how you are, it would be foolish to change it.

Being a mystery is short term tactic, for a long term relationship you gotta do the opposite. Don't keep things hidden, but don't constantly update on every little thing you do, that's annoying.

How often you want to meet is up to you two, however often you'd find best.

 

[Jetleg]

No change.

Dont be a mystery, wont work for the long run.

Stay the same (mentally), never talk about complicated stuff, dont show weakness, ever.

Most importantly - be random, and dynamic, dont do the same thing over and over, that kills relationships.

Also - im always ready to leave, and if there is a slight change in her respect, i show it to her.

 

[Roober]

No change.

Dont be a mystery, wont work for the long run.

Stay the same (mentally), never talk about complicated stuff, dont show weakness, ever.

Most importantly - be random, and dynamic, dont do the same thing over and over, that kills relationships.

Also - im always ready to leave, and if there is a slight change in her respect, i show it to her.

This is money, especially "don't show weakness". One thing I can stress is keep everything 50/50. Put in as much as she puts in...

As bad as it sounds, you have to always be willing to walk away...

From my experience, don't talk on the phone and begin texting too much. I feel that's really what killed my last relationship, we talked several times a day, so she didn't really feel the need to get together. She could get her emotional attachment and everything she wanted to know about me on the phone...

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Make it clear covertly that you are still interested in other women (whether you are or not). The moment she thinks she has you domesticated, it all goes downhill. Less sex, less respect, just less of everything that makes dating and plate-spinning fun.

 

[SgtSplacker]

In my opinion at the beginning it's all about having a great time while you are together so the relationship can survive hot/cold.


After things get serious it's all about calling her out at every opportunity to take advantage of the free negs. And doing whatever it takes to keep her from getting too comfortable in the relationship.