"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How does an ex show up ?

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Man .. after everything .. getting my sources back, getting back on the market, working it out with these females ... NOW THE EX' WANTS TO CALL talking about .. " maybe we could have worked things out " ... how the hell ? She wants to meet this Saturday to see what can happen between she and I. What happened to all that " talking things " out during the week of the break up ? I'm talking to other women, getting numbers, or just talking to women to practice on my game .. and the "ex" wants to show ... My fellow brethren ... any advice of how to approach this ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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StoneColdFox

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Yeah lol.

Run.

Just felt like throwing in my ex story. Sorry haha

Mine ran off with my best friend, and after only about two months became engaged. It's been about 4 months.. (they are only 18..freshman in college)

The past few weeks we've been fighting finally I just cut off all connections with her.. Than she texts me today asking if i'm going to her football game to see her dance (shes on dance team).. and im thinking wtf? have i ever gone to see you dance?..but..i just didnt reply lol

Can't let em get to you.

But than again man, its your life. But remember your young and theres alot of nice women out there. waiting to meet you.
 

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Do not meet with her. Ignore her phone calls, e-mails and text messages. Eventually she will go away.
 

Trapper

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run faster than your guardian angels... best luck..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrRuckus

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If you get back together she will end up dumping you.
 
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