"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How does an ex show up ?

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Man .. after everything .. getting my sources back, getting back on the market, working it out with these females ... NOW THE EX' WANTS TO CALL talking about .. " maybe we could have worked things out " ... how the hell ? She wants to meet this Saturday to see what can happen between she and I. What happened to all that " talking things " out during the week of the break up ? I'm talking to other women, getting numbers, or just talking to women to practice on my game .. and the "ex" wants to show ... My fellow brethren ... any advice of how to approach this ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah lol.

Run.

Just felt like throwing in my ex story. Sorry haha

Mine ran off with my best friend, and after only about two months became engaged. It's been about 4 months.. (they are only 18..freshman in college)

The past few weeks we've been fighting finally I just cut off all connections with her.. Than she texts me today asking if i'm going to her football game to see her dance (shes on dance team).. and im thinking wtf? have i ever gone to see you dance?..but..i just didnt reply lol

Can't let em get to you.

But than again man, its your life. But remember your young and theres alot of nice women out there. waiting to meet you.
 
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Do not meet with her. Ignore her phone calls, e-mails and text messages. Eventually she will go away.
 
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run faster than your guardian angels... best luck..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you get back together she will end up dumping you.
 
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