"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zzirf25

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Alright here is whats up, I was sitting at my house last night and this chick sends me an ICQ message asking me who I am. I am very confused by this so I respond by telling her who I am then ask her who she is. She tells me her name then tells me that one of her friends said that she should add me to her list. Well I ask who her friend was, and I didn't know who her friend was so I don't know how they know me. Well after that I just started up a convo with herand started asking about her and stuff. Every now and then she would tell me about how she has remembered seeing me before(she even said that her and one of her friends stared at me while I was at a baseball game she was at.) I have never met this girl in my life but she said that she has seen me on more than one occation. From what she has said to me, I'm pretty sure that she likes me. Well before I could set up a date or anything she told me she had to go to bed(it was like 2:00 am) but she said she will talk to me tommorow AKA tonight via ICQ. She has already done the hard part for me by not making me approach, but I was just wondering how I steer the tonights convo with her to asking her on a date. I'm pretty sure I won't get rejected but I was just wanting to know how to take the conversation in the appropriate direction to do so. Any feedback is appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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spider_007

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for all you know, she could be a fat desperate slob

interview! interview! interview!
 

nishbuk

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I dunno. The whole IM thing strikes me as kinda weird. Dont' know if it's the "right" move, but what I would do is meet up with her somewhere real quick, talk to her for like 5-10mins in real life, then get her number if she's cool, don't if she's not. Then if you want you can ask her out on a date in 4 days or so.
 

Leuven

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Try to meet her asap and then you will know much more. If she is ugly or somewhat crazy you can still make up some excuses for not taking it too long and block her.

The longer it last imo the more difficult it is going to be ...



Sincerely
 

zerocelcius

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It was me I was just playing with you!

LOL

Got you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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