Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you usually turn a bar date into something more?

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Shivastorm_88

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I know it's a broad question and it'll vary from situation to situation, but do you guys usually have a pattern of some sort, like once the IL seems to be getting higher and higher propose to go for a walk to kiss-close or something like that?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Take her somewhere fun, or some romantic place, kiss close, then invite her to check out your CD collection. It depends on how high the interest is. It is a bar date, meaning she is tipsy....
 
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Escalation is like a ladder, if the bars in the middle are missing you aren't getting the honey.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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once you know they've had at least two drinks, if you see them showing IL, somehow manage to get your hands on their legs and caress....if they don't comment and just keep having a good time, at some point during a good eye contact you can sweep in for a kiss.

Just did that recently.
 
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