"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you usually turn a bar date into something more?

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Shivastorm_88

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I know it's a broad question and it'll vary from situation to situation, but do you guys usually have a pattern of some sort, like once the IL seems to be getting higher and higher propose to go for a walk to kiss-close or something like that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PapiChulo

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Take her somewhere fun, or some romantic place, kiss close, then invite her to check out your CD collection. It depends on how high the interest is. It is a bar date, meaning she is tipsy....
 
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PapiChulo

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Escalation is like a ladder, if the bars in the middle are missing you aren't getting the honey.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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once you know they've had at least two drinks, if you see them showing IL, somehow manage to get your hands on their legs and caress....if they don't comment and just keep having a good time, at some point during a good eye contact you can sweep in for a kiss.

Just did that recently.
 
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