"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sosousage

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i never had this issue before because i just kissed them and touched and they were willing to do more.

but this one woman tells me things like "i cant do it immediately" etc even tho we were kissing and hugging for a while


is she playing dumb to trick me? what would be good solution?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Trick you into what? Why do you always get these dumb girls? They should already know sex is going to happen... I know you don't have your own place so maybe it's because you're trying to fvck them somewhere not comfortable and secluded... like a bedroom.
 

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If she says “I can’t do it immediately” once she may be on the rag. But if it happens repeatedly them that is either very low interest level or some other emotional BS in her head. Neither of which do you want to stick around and deal with. Next.
 

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Some women just take longer. Or she might not be THAT interested. Some women will let you kiss and touch them but know they are not having sex with you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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