How do you treat short attention span women?

[lizardking82]

I have been dealing with a girl last two days in kind of a strange way. She replied to one of my Insta stories two days ago, I went around quickly to a sexual conversation and she was responding pretty well so it went on and on and it turned into sexting quickly, went on like for a couple of hours in the afternoon.

First off, she tells me she's not in the country. Situation gets hotter, she tells me she is in the country, but not in the city (Tirana the capital city of Albania, she is currently in a city about 2 hours away). After that hot sexting night, I could feel her attention deviating a bit yesterday and today I can already notice she is letting messages unread for a while and then returns them. This is sth I usually do myself with some girls so I know.

Now, what do you guys usually do with this type of girl? Do you just withdraw attention? Or sth else?

 

[lizardking82]

Withdraw, obviously

Have done that already, just wanna know if anyone has a different perspective to this.

 

[wifehunter]

she sounds bored.

 

[lizardking82]

she sounds bored.

She is bored LOL she quit school in the capital city, went back to her hometown, just lays at home all day doing nothing so she definitely is bored

 

[wifehunter]

She is bored LOL she quit school in the capital city, went back to her hometown, just lays at home all day doing nothing so she definitely is bored

In that case, make things not so 'ho hum', as it were.

 

[lizardking82]

In that case, make things not so 'ho hum', as it were.

Can you expand on "ho hum" thing, I am not a 100% English native speaker.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Thats why you should never do sexting, especially not with women you haven't dated yet.
Hot in the moment but the day after the magic was gone.

 

[wifehunter]

Can you expand on "ho hum" thing, I am not a 100% English native speaker.

 

[skinnyguy]

I texted a girl a few days ago to set up a date for Sunday. She said yes. We never said what time we are meeting.

I will let her initiate from here. If she confirms on Saturday and asks me when I’ll be there to pick her up, it’s game on. If not, I assume the date is cancelled and will pursue other options.

Too many thirsty guys tend to confirm the day before. I don’t do that. I want to see how high her interest level is. If she texts to confirm, she’s interested. I don’t care that she’s an HB 8.5. If she’s not interested enough to confirm, I will not waste time on her.

 

[guru1000]

I texted a girl a few days ago to set up a date for Sunday. She said yes. We never said what time we are meeting.

I will let her initiate from here. If she confirms on Saturday and asks me when I’ll be there to pick her up, it’s game on. If not, I assume the date is cancelled and will pursue other options.

Too many thirsty guys tend to confirm the day before. I don’t do that. I want to see how high her interest level is. If she texts to confirm, she’s interested. I don’t care that she’s an HB 8.5. If she’s not interested enough to confirm, I will not waste time on her.

I read this and sniff out the scarcity in you guys.

Now, if I can sniff your scarcity out with a few written words, could you imagine what a girl in person could extract.

 

[lizardking82]

I read this and sniff out the scarcity in you guys.

Now, if I can sniff your scarcity out with a few written words, could you imagine what a girl in person could extract.

And I can sniff out the inferiority and the unloved child from your mother inside of you that wants to fights everyone in every thread.

 

[guru1000]

And I can sniff out the inferiority and the unloved child from your mother inside of you that wants to fights everyone in every thread.

Lizard, after the abuse that girl gave you in your other thread, you shouldn't be responding to me. LOL.

Get frame with the little girl first. Then come with the big talk my little lollipop.

 

[lizardking82]

Lizard, after the abuse that girl gave you in your other thread, you shouldn't be responding to me. LOL.

Get frame with the little girl first. Then come with the big talk my little lollipop.

There is no girl that has destroyed me. My ego got a bit hurt from the way she handled that whole thing and that's it. I feel sorry for you who cannot avoid making a fight and trying to offend anyone in the process. I am here to enjoy this forum, express thoughts and the way I feel, even my insecurities. You are here to ridicule people, good for you, keep on.

 

[Macaframalama]

I texted a girl a few days ago to set up a date for Sunday. She said yes. We never said what time we are meeting.

I will let her initiate from here. If she confirms on Saturday and asks me when I’ll be there to pick her up, it’s game on. If not, I assume the date is cancelled and will pursue other options.

Too many thirsty guys tend to confirm the day before. I don’t do that. I want to see how high her interest level is. If she texts to confirm, she’s interested. I don’t care that she’s an HB 8.5. If she’s not interested enough to confirm, I will not waste time on her.

What in the actual fvck?.?. Lmao! You're going to wait to see if she takes on the leadership role? Why don't you go ahead and let her order off the menu for you or wait for her to escelate kino or even go in for the kiss. She'll be dressing you, before it all said and done.

 

[sph21]

What in the actual fvck?.?. Lmao! You're going to wait to see if she takes on the leadership role? Why don't you go ahead and let her order off the menu for you or wait for her to escelate kino or even go in for the kiss. She'll be dressing you, before it all said and done.

LOL

 

[guru1000]

There is no girl that has destroyed me. My ego got a bit hurt from the way she handled that whole thing and that's it. I feel sorry for you who cannot avoid making a fight and trying to offend anyone in the process. I am here to enjoy this forum, express thoughts and the way I feel, even my insecurities. You are here to ridicule people, good for you, keep on.

Don’t feel sorry for me little man. Feel sorry for how you handled yourself with that little girl and how you gave her free reign to dominate your frame.

You should thank me for calling you out in that interaction.

If you want to be treated with respect, then command it and lose your skirt.

 

[skinnyguy]

What in the actual fvck?.?. Lmao! You're going to wait to see if she takes on the leadership role? Why don't you go ahead and let her order off the menu for you or wait for her to escelate kino or even go in for the kiss. She'll be dressing you, before it all said and done.

I’ve had several women do this. They confirm before I do.

Maybe you’re dealing with women who aren’t interested in you?

 

[lizardking82]

I don't feel sorry for feeling disappointed. I don't feel sorry for any of my feelings, be them labelled negative or positive from you or social norms. She never dominated my frame, she was always in my frame, in my expectations. She surprised me and I got disappointed cause the image of her I had in my head got kinda broken and that's OK.

I thanked other people who actually took the time to write a constructive response without going personal for no reason whatsoever. You might be right, but you're also an *******. Have a nice evening.

 

[Macaframalama]

I’ve had several women do this. They confirm before I do.

Dude, confirm what? A date that you haven't even given her a time for, then assume it's cancelled. Lol!

Maybe you’re dealing with women who aren’t interested in you?

No, I'm out here busting nvtts on them, because they're just trying to be nice.