How do you treat AFCs?

[jebach123]

Do you ever tell them to improve themselves?
Do you talk to them at all?
I just wanna hear how you treat all those "men" around you?

 

[wifehunter]

I still respect them but feel sorry for them. Then I remember, that because of them, I have no competition.

On a side note: I had some female uber passengers say most of the guys are jerks, afc's, players... and only 1% are the rare "good guy". And no, not 3%.

It may be where I live. It's like automatic scarcity...way too easy! Like shooting fish in a barrel!

 

[Infern0]

I don't rip on them or anything, at the end of the day I used to be like that. I'll try to drop some wisdom if the situation calls for it but mostly I'll leave them to it.

Most AFC won't even consider change until some next level stuff happens to them

 

[wifehunter]

Most AFC won't even consider change until some next level stuff happens to them

Yes, this precisely. They are too wrapped up in their emotions to think clearly.

 

[zekko]

On a side note: I had some female uber passengers say most of the guys are jerks, afc's, players... and only 1% are the rare "good guy". And no, not 3%.

It may be where I live. It's like automatic scarcity...way too easy! Like shooting fish in a barrel!

That's great, but that doesn't automatically make you the 1% rare "good guy".

I dislike the term AFC, because it's almost as much of a stereotype as the alpha male. But I try to treat everyone with respect unless they prove they are unworthy. If a guy has problems getting women, or if a guy is letting a girl run over him, I will try to gently encourage them in the right direction, but I won't get pushy about it. It's his life and he has to find his right path on his own. I can give him a bit of truth, but he's the one who has to recognize it. Ultimately it's none of my business.

 

[wifehunter]

That's great, but that doesn't automatically make you the 1% rare "good guy".

Maybe not, best to let the ladies decide!

 

[SgtSplacker]

I try to unplug them a bit. I don't start preaching red pill but I'll drop hints.

"I bet she wouldn't act that way if you were brad pit or something like that, think about it."