“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How do you test women?
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TheProspect
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A few of the top of my head:
- Ask them for a favour (Does she accept and perform the favour without contempt, provided the favour is within reason and not a major inconvenience? I am also not attracted to doormats, so a girl with low self-esteem who will never say "no" is another potential problem to me)
- Tell them "No" (How does she respond to "No"? Does she throw a fit or start an argument?)
- Disagree with them (Is she respectful of perspectives differing from her own, or does she get butt-hurt & judgemental and then there's tension all of a sudden?
- Change plans last minute (Life happens and plans need to be modified or changed frequently... Is she mentally flexible, or does she offer up resistance and pout when things don't go as planned?
- Tease them (Can she handle a little well-intentioned ribbing, or does she get easily offended? This is a big one for me and probably the only one I do to intentionally test if I want to be around someone... if they can't laugh at themselves or get offended easily than it's deuces from me).
I don't necessarily do these things to intentionally "test" women, but they are sometimes by-products of my behaviour that more or less function as a "test" that can inform me as to whether or not the chick is someone I want to be around.
But these can also apply for friendships as well... It's important to find out and filter the kind of people you want in your life.
- Ask them for a favour (Does she accept and perform the favour without contempt, provided the favour is within reason and not a major inconvenience? I am also not attracted to doormats, so a girl with low self-esteem who will never say "no" is another potential problem to me)
- Tell them "No" (How does she respond to "No"? Does she throw a fit or start an argument?)
- Disagree with them (Is she respectful of perspectives differing from her own, or does she get butt-hurt & judgemental and then there's tension all of a sudden?
- Change plans last minute (Life happens and plans need to be modified or changed frequently... Is she mentally flexible, or does she offer up resistance and pout when things don't go as planned?
- Tease them (Can she handle a little well-intentioned ribbing, or does she get easily offended? This is a big one for me and probably the only one I do to intentionally test if I want to be around someone... if they can't laugh at themselves or get offended easily than it's deuces from me).
I don't necessarily do these things to intentionally "test" women, but they are sometimes by-products of my behaviour that more or less function as a "test" that can inform me as to whether or not the chick is someone I want to be around.
But these can also apply for friendships as well... It's important to find out and filter the kind of people you want in your life.
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Be in the passenger seat while a woman is driving in rush hour traffic and also on the highway.
How she drives on the highway and also how she behaves in rush hour traffic will reveal more about her than you realize.
How she drives on the highway and also how she behaves in rush hour traffic will reveal more about her than you realize.
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Compliance.
Crosstimbers Okie
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You are direct and make her understand early on exactly what you expect. If she's non-compliant, she failed the test and is free to make some supplicating loser as miserable as she is.
Remember, it's just greasy, smelly *****. That's all it is.
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I had a girl drive me around our tiny, dingy alleyways we call roads here in her dad's long, ungainly station wagon, in heavy, chaotic traffic. She was so chilled out and nothing seemed to phase her. Gotta admit I was impressed.
That was before the lockdown, and she hasn't contacted me in four months. Working in a pharmacy during covid might have something to do with that, but being too chilled out plainly has its downsides.
I refuse to contact her.
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Depends on the situation where your at.
i’ve asked to bring a bottle of wine if shes comin over. If im on my way to meet her, ill ask to grab us coffees before we go somewhere. When chilling at her / your place, you can ask her to bring you water when you layback or massage. Start small and move foward from there.
i’ve asked to bring a bottle of wine if shes comin over. If im on my way to meet her, ill ask to grab us coffees before we go somewhere. When chilling at her / your place, you can ask her to bring you water when you layback or massage. Start small and move foward from there.
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By being my real self around them all the time. No acting on my part. What you see and what you experience are the authentic me. If we're not compatible, we're not compatible. If she dislikes stuff about me and it bothers her to the point where she gets upset about it, then it's not going to work.
