"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you tell if you have an Anxiety Disorder?

Brighty

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I thought it was just puberty.. but I'm almost 19 now and I have a lot of the same nervous symptoms as I did when I was 16.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pua1989

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ask luke skywalker.....on second thought, dont do that he doesnt realize it either
 

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pua1989 said:
ask luke skywalker.....on second thought, dont do that he doesnt realize it either
Anxiety is not the same as being mentally challenged, and an assh*ole on top of that.


OP: Can you describe in detail, what you mean? Is there a time when you don't have such symptoms, like when going on vacation, changing locations and environment... etc.

It could be something in your diet, or something you're lacking. Could be a physical problem, could be something wrong with your adrenaline production and so on. There's so many causes for things. You need to find out what it is and eliminate the problem.
 

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This isn't scientific, but I'm about as neurotic a man as you will find.

How do I think you can tell? If there mere thought of doing something, not just the doing, gives you a sense of fear and dread and doubt. And if you avoid doing things because you KNOW they will go badly.

This is severe anxiety and I have to fight it all the time.
 

Brighty

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Alle_Gory said:
Anxiety is not the same as being mentally challenged, and an assh*ole on top of that.


OP: Can you describe in detail, what you mean? Is there a time when you don't have such symptoms, like when going on vacation, changing locations and environment... etc.

It could be something in your diet, or something you're lacking. Could be a physical problem, could be something wrong with your adrenaline production and so on. There's so many causes for things. You need to find out what it is and eliminate the problem.

For example, when I'm outside of school with my friends and when I'm in classes where I'm friends with everyone (6/8 classes) I feel comfortable and right at home. But when I'm in school walking in the hallways (well, I just graduated, so idk) I always felt like everyone was always watching me and as a result I just did things... differently. I dont know how to describe it, but like I would have these little awkward mannerisms, I'd lose my swagger, I'd accidently leave out words, I'd mumble, etc.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The only way to know for sure if you have an Anxiety Disorder is to be diagnosed by a trained professional. If you're having severe problems and no amount of trying to push through it seems to work, then it could be worth seeing a doctor. The important thing is that you don't give up too easily when trying on your own. Follow the advice of others in this thread and in the Bible to work on overcoming your social issues first.
 
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