"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Do You Tell If a Girl is Really on Her Period?

jafyk

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Hey guys, I haven't been here in ages, lol. WOW! The site has a slightly new design. Cool, cool. So, I was just talking to a friend who had spent time with a girl today (a stripper to be precise) after all was said and done he tried to pull the moves on her and she told him she was on her period.

I bet as guys we've all been in this situation. So, how can you tell if a girl is lying or honestly telling the truth? I pretty much told my friend to ask her for a ******* and if she refuses she's probably lying.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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btownbuck2012

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I think the only way you can really tell is if she's your gf or if you've been seeing her for a while and are familiar with her cycles and generally have a good idea when she's "due" for her period and the context clues before and after, tampons in the trash can before and blood on your **** the first time after, etc. I think it's pretty much impossible to be able to tell with some random chick you've just met or have only met once that you're trying to bang whether or not she's really telling the truth.
 

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Being a stripper, it's probably her main go to lie she uses at the club for rejection without making men feel like they were rejected. She can still get more tips and attention afterwards with that one.
i.e., it's biological, and beyond her control…
Strippers are pros at playing men.
 
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legit, unless you know her cycle, the only way to tell is to check.

That said, if you are at her place, you could check out her bathroom trash and see if there are wrappers in it. But even this manner of checking isnt fail safe.
 

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To further confuse matters, some women are not regular. And sometimes when she says she is on her period, she means she is not bleeding right now, but the act of getting pounded would probably make her start doing so.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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