"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how do you tell a woman on a date that you hate your job?

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how do you tell a woman on a date that you hate your job?


She will ask about your career during conversation. is there a way to avoid discussing details about the job.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warrior74

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SharinganUser said:
Just tell her you looking for a change or something. Tell her what you would like to do and keep the focus on that.
this. You have to make it a positive. In fact, you have to do more than that. You have to make a decision about your job and start living that decision. Even if it takes you years to finally live it, you will always have something that you are working towards and like Earl Nightingale said on The Strangest Secret in the World, a success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal.

You have to find a success in this, a goal to work towards and then when you talk to a woman, you will speak with ambition and confidence for where you are going, not where you are at.
 

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It's not DJ to talk about your career. You are supposed to talk about travel, astrology, and who lies more, men or women? lol jk
 

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If she asks you about your career or your financial status, that's a sign she is looking for someone well off to leach upon and that she is looking for a husband.

If you are ok with that, you can answer her questions, but personally I would call her a gold digger and just leave.
Because she wants to determine if you're self-sufficent, independent, and secure, she's a gold-digger?

To the OP, any answer will suffice just as long as you don't complain or come off as whiney about your job. No one, especially females, wants to hear a grown man moan and b**ch.
 

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I avoid discussing anything negative on both sides of the conversation. I don't want to hear about her negative stuff, and she doesn't need to hear about mine. Anything you say should be in a positive light about bettering yourself. Say you are looking for something more challenging, and somehow swing that into a sexual discussion.

Want to ***** about your job? Buy a 6 pack and have a guys night :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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picard said:
how do you tell a woman on a date that you hate your job?
You don´t tell it. It´s that easy. Never ever.

If you are pissed of because of your work, meet male friends, drink a beer with them and talk about it. But not in front of a woman.
 

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AmIAFC said:
Because she wants to determine if you're self-sufficent, independent, and secure, she's a gold-digger?
Do you believe the men in her past were attractive to her because of such qualities?

A date is supposed to be fun, not a job interview.
 

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It was always a red flag for me when the girl started bit$$ing about her job. I didn't want to hear it, primarily because I want employed/self-sufficient women and because bit$$ing turns me off. So, if I don't want to hear it from them, I sure as heck wouldn't subject them to my bit$$ing about my job (or anything else).
 

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Stone the Crows Picard,Not many people enjoy their Work,Its just a necessary Evil.
 
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