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How do you tell a girl how to kiss properly lol

Tom Stall

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Well I just made out with a girl in my dorm last night, and she is a terrible kisser

I've kissed a few girls before and it is an enjoyable experince, but its a bit of a chore to kiss this girl, although i do like her

she sorta purses her lips up, like a beak and doesn't open her mouth very wide, and does this kind of chirping movement, like a fish out of water moving their lips open and close

it was only one night, but how to i break it to her to kiss properly

i probably could have slept with her last night, but i decided not to

hahaha, what a stupid problem to have

first time i kissed someone, i wasn't doing it right either, and being told that you're a bad kisser kinda of hurts the ego

cheers fellas
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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n00bPimp

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i probably could have slept with her last night, but i decided not to
Um, why?
And to answer your question, you can solve the kissing problem if you're direct to her, even tease her about it, and show her how its done. This also shows that you're the kind of guy that likes to take charge. Dont be afraid of hurting her feelings, the only time girls get hurt is when they sense that your intention is to hurt them. Just be confident about it.
 

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n00bPimp said:
Um, why?
And to answer your question, you can solve the kissing problem if you're direct to her, even tease her about it, and show her how its done. This also shows that you're the kind of guy that likes to take charge. Dont be afraid of hurting her feelings, the only time girls get hurt is when they sense that your intention is to hurt them. Just be confident about it.
^^^Exactly...a lot of times when guys or gals kiss they're just to inexperienced and get anxious. You should lead the way "Babe slow down a little" "hun Don't be so tense" "Sweetie loosen up them soft sexy lips some" all while sensually kissing her...teasing her with kisses then backing away. Teaching her how to become an awesome kisser will greatly impact her and she'll remember it lol.
 

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Only be direct if a woman is not manipulative. When it comes to kissing any woman, unless she is your wife, she does not deserve that much thought as what you are putting into it. Kiss how you please.
 

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Show her how to kiss properly and after that tell her to kiss you like you kissed her.
 

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