"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you tell a girl how to kiss properly lol

Tom Stall

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Well I just made out with a girl in my dorm last night, and she is a terrible kisser

I've kissed a few girls before and it is an enjoyable experince, but its a bit of a chore to kiss this girl, although i do like her

she sorta purses her lips up, like a beak and doesn't open her mouth very wide, and does this kind of chirping movement, like a fish out of water moving their lips open and close

it was only one night, but how to i break it to her to kiss properly

i probably could have slept with her last night, but i decided not to

hahaha, what a stupid problem to have

first time i kissed someone, i wasn't doing it right either, and being told that you're a bad kisser kinda of hurts the ego

cheers fellas
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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n00bPimp

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i probably could have slept with her last night, but i decided not to
Um, why?
And to answer your question, you can solve the kissing problem if you're direct to her, even tease her about it, and show her how its done. This also shows that you're the kind of guy that likes to take charge. Dont be afraid of hurting her feelings, the only time girls get hurt is when they sense that your intention is to hurt them. Just be confident about it.
 

CarlitosWay

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n00bPimp said:
Um, why?
And to answer your question, you can solve the kissing problem if you're direct to her, even tease her about it, and show her how its done. This also shows that you're the kind of guy that likes to take charge. Dont be afraid of hurting her feelings, the only time girls get hurt is when they sense that your intention is to hurt them. Just be confident about it.
^^^Exactly...a lot of times when guys or gals kiss they're just to inexperienced and get anxious. You should lead the way "Babe slow down a little" "hun Don't be so tense" "Sweetie loosen up them soft sexy lips some" all while sensually kissing her...teasing her with kisses then backing away. Teaching her how to become an awesome kisser will greatly impact her and she'll remember it lol.
 

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Only be direct if a woman is not manipulative. When it comes to kissing any woman, unless she is your wife, she does not deserve that much thought as what you are putting into it. Kiss how you please.
 

Commandante

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Show her how to kiss properly and after that tell her to kiss you like you kissed her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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