How do you take your ex lying to your friends about you?

[cactus3178]

I haven't talked to this little biotch in weeks. She's dating somebody else, so am I, we aren't friends. Last week, she started practically begging me to be friends with her, I told her she wasn't a friend to me....then the weekend goes by and I hear on Monday that she's going around telling some really f*cked up lies about me.

She said I stole her credit card info and racked it up (we had a joint Visa, I had a card and she had one too), and that I did this, that, and the other....basically alot of little BS lies and half-truths.

All the people that know are mutual friends, and I don't know who believes what, but I'm pissed.

How do you deal with that?

If I don't defend myself, I'll look guilty, but I'm sick and goddamn tired of these games.

 

[Skullcrusher]

Possibly look for new friends unrelated to this girl.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

If it isn't true and people believe it, were they truly your friends?

 

[JonJack]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
If it isn't true and people believe it, were they truly your friends?

Couldn't agree more man. Cause they would be her friends instead of yours.

 

[Dominant]

If you can, explain to your friends what she's lying about.

Then, call the ***** and chew her out.

People probably won't agree with me on this, but I really don't care.

You going to stand there and let her do this stupid crap and get away with it?

Chew the ***** out. Swear, yell, whatever. Intimidate her into responding to you.

Don't be scared about looking like a "jerk" and her not liking you anymore, because:

1. She has nothing to offer.
2. She won't pull this **** anymore.
3. She will respect you more.

-Dominant

 

[bossdog]

who cares man you won. She wants you.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by bossdog
who cares man you won. She wants you.

Shut the hell up. That's not true, and that's also not what he wants to know.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
If it isn't true and people believe it, were they truly your friends?

Amen.

You know what you did and didn't do. If you tell your "friends" and they believe some 2-bit lying h0 over you, then dump THEM too. And if she starts telling people that may affect your future/professional life, threaten her with a lawsuit to shut her up...women don't get law.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by JonJack
Couldn't agree more man. Cause they would be her friends instead of yours.

Exactly.