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How do you "sweep girls off their feet"

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I have been chatting to this girl who I have been on a couple of dates with and on two occasions she has asked whether I sweep girls off their feet, and commented on how she longs to be swept off her feet. Now I am not stupid...and know she is effectively saying...sweep me off my feet...but not sure what she means precisely

How do you sweep a girl off her feet?

We are going to a concert on Sunday followed by some drinks...so what should my plan be?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's ridiculous to say that it's stupid that he wants to sweep her off her feet. Don't say that. Rather say it's ridiculous that he wants to sweep her off her feet because she mentioned that he should.

I think sweeping a girl off their feet is a DJ master skill. You should have this girl swooning after you. You should be such a pimp that she's literally swept off her feet.

Does doing romantic favors while dating to sweep her off her feet make you an AFC? Maybe. It depends how you do it though.

If you're in a relationship I believe that you should want to sweep the girl off her feet. Why not? You don't have to throw away your values as a DJ to do this.
 
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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
Now I am not stupid...and know she is effectively saying...sweep me off my feet...but not sure what she means precisely

How do you sweep a girl off her feet?

We are going to a concert on Sunday followed by some drinks...so what should my plan be?
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NO she is effectively saying: Qualify yourself to me.

I'm not sure WHAT the **** sweeping a chick off there feet means or even is BUT I can tell you that EVERY girl I have ever "dated" has said "you're NOT like any guy I have EVER meet" one chick that i'm seeing now even wrote that exact same thing in her diary and listen the reason why and how I'm not like the other chump that she's been with.

So for real **** sweeping a chick off her feet, try and NOT be like every guy she dated, try not to be like the wussies that kiss her ass everyday and make weak attempts to "prove to her" that they are right for her.

BE ALPHA, Quailfy her not the other way around
 
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Re: Re: How do you "sweep girls off their feet"

Originally posted by yunghova35
NO she is effectively saying: Qualify yourself to me.

I'm not sure WHAT the **** sweeping a chick off there feet means or even is BUT I can tell you that EVERY girl I have ever "dated" has said "you're NOT like any guy I have EVER meet" one chick that i'm seeing now even wrote that exact same thing in her diary and listen the reason why and how I'm not like the other chump that she's been with.

So for real **** sweeping a chick off her feet, try and NOT be like every guy she dated, try not to be like the wussies that kiss her ass everyday and make weak attempts to "prove to her" that they are right for her.

BE ALPHA, Quailfy her not the other way around
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You wondered what sweeping a girl off there feet is? Well you just described it perfectly: being unlike any other guy she has ever been with. Having this girl memorized by you through actions, words, and just your personality.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
We are going to a concert on Sunday followed by some drinks...so what should my plan be?
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Not to be rude, but you've been a member of the forum for well over 2 years now - I'd expect this sort of a question from a newbie. If after 2 years of visiting this site, you still haven't figured out what to do on a date with a girl... :(
 
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