Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you "sweep girls off their feet"

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I have been chatting to this girl who I have been on a couple of dates with and on two occasions she has asked whether I sweep girls off their feet, and commented on how she longs to be swept off her feet. Now I am not stupid...and know she is effectively saying...sweep me off my feet...but not sure what she means precisely

How do you sweep a girl off her feet?

We are going to a concert on Sunday followed by some drinks...so what should my plan be?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's ridiculous to say that it's stupid that he wants to sweep her off her feet. Don't say that. Rather say it's ridiculous that he wants to sweep her off her feet because she mentioned that he should.

I think sweeping a girl off their feet is a DJ master skill. You should have this girl swooning after you. You should be such a pimp that she's literally swept off her feet.

Does doing romantic favors while dating to sweep her off her feet make you an AFC? Maybe. It depends how you do it though.

If you're in a relationship I believe that you should want to sweep the girl off her feet. Why not? You don't have to throw away your values as a DJ to do this.
 
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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
Now I am not stupid...and know she is effectively saying...sweep me off my feet...but not sure what she means precisely

How do you sweep a girl off her feet?

We are going to a concert on Sunday followed by some drinks...so what should my plan be?
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NO she is effectively saying: Qualify yourself to me.

I'm not sure WHAT the **** sweeping a chick off there feet means or even is BUT I can tell you that EVERY girl I have ever "dated" has said "you're NOT like any guy I have EVER meet" one chick that i'm seeing now even wrote that exact same thing in her diary and listen the reason why and how I'm not like the other chump that she's been with.

So for real **** sweeping a chick off her feet, try and NOT be like every guy she dated, try not to be like the wussies that kiss her ass everyday and make weak attempts to "prove to her" that they are right for her.

BE ALPHA, Quailfy her not the other way around
 
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Re: Re: How do you "sweep girls off their feet"

Originally posted by yunghova35
NO she is effectively saying: Qualify yourself to me.

I'm not sure WHAT the **** sweeping a chick off there feet means or even is BUT I can tell you that EVERY girl I have ever "dated" has said "you're NOT like any guy I have EVER meet" one chick that i'm seeing now even wrote that exact same thing in her diary and listen the reason why and how I'm not like the other chump that she's been with.

So for real **** sweeping a chick off her feet, try and NOT be like every guy she dated, try not to be like the wussies that kiss her ass everyday and make weak attempts to "prove to her" that they are right for her.

BE ALPHA, Quailfy her not the other way around
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You wondered what sweeping a girl off there feet is? Well you just described it perfectly: being unlike any other guy she has ever been with. Having this girl memorized by you through actions, words, and just your personality.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
We are going to a concert on Sunday followed by some drinks...so what should my plan be?
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Not to be rude, but you've been a member of the forum for well over 2 years now - I'd expect this sort of a question from a newbie. If after 2 years of visiting this site, you still haven't figured out what to do on a date with a girl... :(
 
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