"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you successfully get poisonous people out of your life?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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Friends
Some family members
and even people that knew you growing up


I mean the ones that just won't back away no matter what you tell them and persist on trying to be a part of your life. They use every tactic in the book to get your attention and be a part of the life you have built, no matter what you do they persist.

Because I grew up in a poor part of a big city urban area and managed to make it out, I had to deal with a lot of poisonous personalities. Problem is that when I visit my old city to see my family I still have to run into a lot of those personalities who use every trick in the book to try and get something out of me (at times even violence and anger).

How do you deal with those kinds of personalities?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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chath

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most of the time they are attention seekers. stop giving them attention.
 

Cerwin Vega

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The same way you would treat an ex...
 
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