"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you successfully get poisonous people out of your life?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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Friends
Some family members
and even people that knew you growing up


I mean the ones that just won't back away no matter what you tell them and persist on trying to be a part of your life. They use every tactic in the book to get your attention and be a part of the life you have built, no matter what you do they persist.

Because I grew up in a poor part of a big city urban area and managed to make it out, I had to deal with a lot of poisonous personalities. Problem is that when I visit my old city to see my family I still have to run into a lot of those personalities who use every trick in the book to try and get something out of me (at times even violence and anger).

How do you deal with those kinds of personalities?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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chath

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most of the time they are attention seekers. stop giving them attention.
 

Cerwin Vega

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The same way you would treat an ex...
 
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