"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you stop getting a fat face?

Austin Allegro

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Renewing my passport recently, I noticed the pic of me taken ten years ago. I had much better defined cheekbones and jawline.

Now I was REALLY skinny in those days - 5'7" and weighed about 112 pounds. I've put on a bit more weight recently (up to about 135 pounds) which suits me fine, but it seems to have given me a fat face - no cheekbone definition and a slight double chin.

As I recall this happened to my dad as well when he was my age.

Is this something genetic or is there anything I can do about it like exercises etc?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MackJr

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Originally posted by victor von doom
It's not genetic. Fat body= Fat face. Simple.
It is genetic in terms of the proportion of fat one accumulates. People will gain weight in areas in a certain order, for example, tits-stomach-butt-neck. It's different for different people.

However, If you're within 18% it doesn't seem like you should have too much babyfat.
 
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Originally posted by MackJr
It is genetic in terms of the proportion of fat one accumulates. People will gain weight in areas in a certain order, for example, tits-stomach-butt-neck. It's different for different people.

However, If you're within 18% it doesn't seem like you should have too much babyfat.
You are complicating things way too much. The genetics argument has become this gigantic crutch for people trying to justify their weight gains. Please.

The fatter you are, the fatter your face will look. It's simple.

He put on 25 lbs. of mostly fat, probably, and now his face reflects that difference. Why? as he gets older his metabolism is starting to decrease. Therefore, he puts on weight easier than in the past.
 

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well said victor; if you sit arouund all day, do not get exercise and do not watch what you are eating you are going to gain weight. thats common knowledge, your "face fat" is not genetic, work it off, there is no magic cream you can rub on it to make it go away
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I know a girl who got a tight body and at almost 18 still got some sorta babyfat on her face lol. She looks good though ;-)

If u gained 27 lbs recently chances are a lot of it if not almost everything is fat. If your body gains fat your face will do so too.
 

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Plenty of people have a disproportionately fat face for their body. One thirty-five at 5'7 is hardly fat. A little underweight in my view.

Austin, try reducing your carbs a little. Cut back on those chips, bread, pasta etc. This usually brings my cheek bones and jawline through pretty quickly. Get in the gym also if you aren't already.

Some of my gear using chums swear by glycerine to reduce the facial bloat caused by test and other aromatizing steroids. Worth a try if other methods don't work and it particularly bothers you.
 
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