"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you stay strong consistently?

frencha

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I'm going through a phase right now and I'm working to improve myself and such. How do you guys stay persistent and determined?

I was listening to D' Angelo 77 rules, he said to learn to tray instant gratification for long term goals and dreams accomplishment.

So to be honest, how do I go each day when at times I feel low emotional states such as lonelyness.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74

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In regards to women? I'm so busy that any woman in my life better be helping and smoothing the way or she's out. I don't have time for anything else.
 

frencha

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Espi said:
Keep your eyes on the prize...visualize the rewards...close your eyes right now and visualize yourself romancing a hot babe...or driving the car of your dreams...

If the reward is worthy enough, you'll do what it takes to stay motivated.

That's why I like the gym...I like hot women to notice me...it feels great to stand out from the average man...
I like that! thx!
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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Write your goals down and keep the list someone you will see it every day. Tape it on a wall in your room.

Some people swear on "dreamboards", might be worth googling.
 
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