"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you stay strong consistently?

frencha

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I'm going through a phase right now and I'm working to improve myself and such. How do you guys stay persistent and determined?

I was listening to D' Angelo 77 rules, he said to learn to tray instant gratification for long term goals and dreams accomplishment.

So to be honest, how do I go each day when at times I feel low emotional states such as lonelyness.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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In regards to women? I'm so busy that any woman in my life better be helping and smoothing the way or she's out. I don't have time for anything else.
 

frencha

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Espi said:
Keep your eyes on the prize...visualize the rewards...close your eyes right now and visualize yourself romancing a hot babe...or driving the car of your dreams...

If the reward is worthy enough, you'll do what it takes to stay motivated.

That's why I like the gym...I like hot women to notice me...it feels great to stand out from the average man...
I like that! thx!
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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Write your goals down and keep the list someone you will see it every day. Tape it on a wall in your room.

Some people swear on "dreamboards", might be worth googling.
 
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