"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you stay strong consistently?

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frencha

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I'm going through a phase right now and I'm working to improve myself and such. How do you guys stay persistent and determined?

I was listening to D' Angelo 77 rules, he said to learn to tray instant gratification for long term goals and dreams accomplishment.

So to be honest, how do I go each day when at times I feel low emotional states such as lonelyness.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Warrior74

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In regards to women? I'm so busy that any woman in my life better be helping and smoothing the way or she's out. I don't have time for anything else.
 
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Espi said:
Keep your eyes on the prize...visualize the rewards...close your eyes right now and visualize yourself romancing a hot babe...or driving the car of your dreams...

If the reward is worthy enough, you'll do what it takes to stay motivated.

That's why I like the gym...I like hot women to notice me...it feels great to stand out from the average man...
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I like that! thx!
 
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Write your goals down and keep the list someone you will see it every day. Tape it on a wall in your room.

Some people swear on "dreamboards", might be worth googling.
 
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