"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How Do You Stay Motivated? How Can I?

Cure

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I will second how awesome the book is.

Very glad I followed kerpals reccomendation!

Cure.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mrRuckus

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If my squat was 350 last week then my motivation currently is to get 352 this week. I like bigger numbers better than little numbers. 352 is bigger than 350.

Long term goals simply aren't as effective as short term goals. People lose their way. I have no idea when my squat will be 405, but a couple lbs at a time will get it there.



Kerpal said:
Compare to your program where you only do each lift once a week.
What does that have to do with anything?

Some people are better doing lifts more often and some aren't.

I'm doing each powerlift plus the press once every 9 days and it's going just peachy. Squats 3x a week was just fine when I squatting 165.
 

Jmiah

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Do you guys buy protein and stuff at the vitamin stores? I'm underweight and really want to gain weight and muscle but idk the best way to go about doing that.
 

ENIGMA16

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You can buy whey protein but I only have it on hand for when I don't have time to prepare food after a work out. Otherwise I'll have a bunch of milk and/or a tuna sandwich.
 

Quiksilver

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Haha "do you buy protein at the vitamin store?"

Hop on your bicycle with $50 in your pocket and a backpack on. Go to your nearest big supermarket and stock up on 2kgs of chicken breast, 2kgs of lean ground beef or steak, 1kg of some other random meat, 48 eggs, 10 cans of tuna, olive oil, fish oil, butter, coconut oil, 1 kg of fresh veggies, 1 kg of frozen veggies, some fruit, plain rolled oats, 1kg brown rice.

Repeat each week.

There is your protein + fillers, no vitamin store needed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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