I'm kind of in a hurry right now but figured I'd start this thread before I leave for class.
How do you stay motivated? What keeps you going to the gym every day? How do you keep from getting lazy?
I have two things that keep derailing me.
The first is that I'm not seeing any results. Now I know that results come very slowly and are hard fought, but no matter how much I tell myself that it doesn't help from the attitude I have as a result: a feeling of pointlessness, and it being a waste of time. I'm currently 165-170 lbs, and the last time I was able to get that down to 155 was with a ton of very hard work, and it returned shortly afterward. It now seems I can't even get down to 160; no matter how hard I try my weight doesn't go down. It doesn't look as if I'm building muscle, either.
I know in my head that if I keep going to the gym as often as I was that I will see results, but again this doesn't seem to affect my overall attitude or feeling that it's pointless because I haven't seen much.
The second problem is that I just don't care. I'll tell myself that I look fine the way I am, and that I can pull girls how I look so it doesn't really matter if I look better even if I'm able to improve my looks by working out, and if that's the case then I'm going through a whole lot of trouble for very little gain.
I guess I need some help changing my mindset about working out, or a kick in the ass or something. Also some tips on my routine (which can be found here) would be appreciated. Anything that could help show results sooner.
Oh yeah, one more thing. It feels like I'm barely at the gym and like I could be doing a ton more that I'm not. Maybe it's because I just picked the beginner's plan, but how could I add to it so I feel more accomplished and to help improve?
How do you stay motivated? What keeps you going to the gym every day? How do you keep from getting lazy?
I have two things that keep derailing me.
The first is that I'm not seeing any results. Now I know that results come very slowly and are hard fought, but no matter how much I tell myself that it doesn't help from the attitude I have as a result: a feeling of pointlessness, and it being a waste of time. I'm currently 165-170 lbs, and the last time I was able to get that down to 155 was with a ton of very hard work, and it returned shortly afterward. It now seems I can't even get down to 160; no matter how hard I try my weight doesn't go down. It doesn't look as if I'm building muscle, either.
I know in my head that if I keep going to the gym as often as I was that I will see results, but again this doesn't seem to affect my overall attitude or feeling that it's pointless because I haven't seen much.
The second problem is that I just don't care. I'll tell myself that I look fine the way I am, and that I can pull girls how I look so it doesn't really matter if I look better even if I'm able to improve my looks by working out, and if that's the case then I'm going through a whole lot of trouble for very little gain.
I guess I need some help changing my mindset about working out, or a kick in the ass or something. Also some tips on my routine (which can be found here) would be appreciated. Anything that could help show results sooner.
Oh yeah, one more thing. It feels like I'm barely at the gym and like I could be doing a ton more that I'm not. Maybe it's because I just picked the beginner's plan, but how could I add to it so I feel more accomplished and to help improve?