"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do you soften up a ten w/ a strong ***** shield?

john_1234

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this was different... I approached a ten (stripper-like) at the bar and she seemed distant/standoffish. I simply walked away like I do w/ all girls who behave like this. Minutes later, she sits close to me; now I'm sure she was probably interested but just had a strong ***** shield. I started chatting it up w/ her but she wasn't putting much effort into it. Whatevers... I walked away again. Probably about twenty minutes passed by, and the ten was at the same spot. I talked to her again, but this time she was receptive. But only for a short while. I treated this ten the same way I do w/ all girls but nothing worked. Haha, this one was tough. Out of all girls I've ever approached, this girl hands down had the strongest ***** shield I've encountered.

How does one go about handling tens who have strong ***** shields?
 

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Sean O

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Slap her with your d1ck. :D

Personally, I wouldn't bother trying to break down such a strong b1tch shield unless I was REALLY horny. Besides, remember that quote that's appeared on this site a number of times: "If a woman is interested in you, she'll make it easy for you to seduce her." Seems to me like three attempts at a conversation with no good response is more than just a b1tch shield; she probably wasn't very interested. Maybe she was just looking for attention?
 

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First off, there's rarely a ten. Make sure she is really a ten first.
 
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