"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how do you soften up a ten w/ a strong ***** shield?

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this was different... I approached a ten (stripper-like) at the bar and she seemed distant/standoffish. I simply walked away like I do w/ all girls who behave like this. Minutes later, she sits close to me; now I'm sure she was probably interested but just had a strong ***** shield. I started chatting it up w/ her but she wasn't putting much effort into it. Whatevers... I walked away again. Probably about twenty minutes passed by, and the ten was at the same spot. I talked to her again, but this time she was receptive. But only for a short while. I treated this ten the same way I do w/ all girls but nothing worked. Haha, this one was tough. Out of all girls I've ever approached, this girl hands down had the strongest ***** shield I've encountered.

How does one go about handling tens who have strong ***** shields?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Slap her with your d1ck. :D

Personally, I wouldn't bother trying to break down such a strong b1tch shield unless I was REALLY horny. Besides, remember that quote that's appeared on this site a number of times: "If a woman is interested in you, she'll make it easy for you to seduce her." Seems to me like three attempts at a conversation with no good response is more than just a b1tch shield; she probably wasn't very interested. Maybe she was just looking for attention?
 
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First off, there's rarely a ten. Make sure she is really a ten first.
 
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