"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do you soften up a ten w/ a strong ***** shield?

john_1234

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this was different... I approached a ten (stripper-like) at the bar and she seemed distant/standoffish. I simply walked away like I do w/ all girls who behave like this. Minutes later, she sits close to me; now I'm sure she was probably interested but just had a strong ***** shield. I started chatting it up w/ her but she wasn't putting much effort into it. Whatevers... I walked away again. Probably about twenty minutes passed by, and the ten was at the same spot. I talked to her again, but this time she was receptive. But only for a short while. I treated this ten the same way I do w/ all girls but nothing worked. Haha, this one was tough. Out of all girls I've ever approached, this girl hands down had the strongest ***** shield I've encountered.

How does one go about handling tens who have strong ***** shields?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sean O

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Slap her with your d1ck. :D

Personally, I wouldn't bother trying to break down such a strong b1tch shield unless I was REALLY horny. Besides, remember that quote that's appeared on this site a number of times: "If a woman is interested in you, she'll make it easy for you to seduce her." Seems to me like three attempts at a conversation with no good response is more than just a b1tch shield; she probably wasn't very interested. Maybe she was just looking for attention?
 

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First off, there's rarely a ten. Make sure she is really a ten first.
 
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