Have you dropped fine game on a girl and you feel that ur about to close and then....The girl asks you "wats my name?" and you have no idea what it is. How do you respond to that question, do you you just say im sorry i forgot???
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do you respond to this question?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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This is precisely why canned lines and trickery does not work. One of the few things any guy should remember is her fvcking name.
If you happen to forget her name though, the actress/celebrity bit works.
If you happen to forget her name though, the actress/celebrity bit works.
**** i hate when that happens.. i got such a bad memory for names. like its not even funny, i dont even know half the kids name in my class.. i always call girls the wrong name, its funny sh1t at the same time!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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da_hunter said:
I like that responce.
at one time i was talking to 11 girls, actively dating 4. Im decent with names, but you get to know them on dates and stuff, try keeping all that info straight. Asking the same questions on 2 different dates because you forgot who you asked them to. Getting details confused between 2 chicks. Its messed up. I had to let a few of them go, because i was messing up stuff with the girls that were most interested. Id be like "yeah, you went to college for nursing right?",
She replies "NO, I went for business". OOps. Ive done this so much. Im going to get a notebook to take notes at the end of the date. Probably a good idea.
She replies "NO, I went for business". OOps. Ive done this so much. Im going to get a notebook to take notes at the end of the date. Probably a good idea.
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"One of the few things any guy should remember is her fvching name."KarmaSutra said:
you couldn't have put that better man.
also, if by some twist of fate i get a chick naked in my bed that i didn't pay to be there without ever getting her name i'm glad somebody brought up the celebrity bit...you could pull that off if you did it right i think
An idea you can try...
Her: Whats my name?
You: Hey! Thats my line... *grin* ... And its meant for later, no need to rush *innocent smile*
Her: hehehe what?
You: *quoting yourself / the situation* "Whaaaaaats my naaaame! Whaaaaaats my naaaame! Whoooos your daaaddyyy?!" ...
Her: *giggle*
You: (while she is giggling / reacting to your humor) Have you ever been with a guy that has said that to you in bed? *hehe* <--- Notice how you are changing the subject + taking her mind off of her name and introducing a more... exciting topic?
Then at a later stage try and pick up on her name... Maybe her friends, phone, etc.. And just hope she doesnt ask again before you figure out what her name is / remember her name. :nervous:
Just a tip on how to NOT forget a girls name: When she tells you her name try and USE it often. Also what is a very good technique is to relate her name to something in your head. ie: If I met a girl called Bianca and did not want to forget her name, then I must just relate her to a "Beautiful." Then just repeat it a few times in my head. "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" ...
When you all go to bed tonight, I bet you will still remember "Beautiful Bianca" just from reading it a few times. If you just make a little extra effort to remember her name, you should find that remembering names will now go from a "problem that you HAD" to an "advantage that you have over other guys that dont make the effort"
Change is a decision away.
Her: Whats my name?
You: Hey! Thats my line... *grin* ... And its meant for later, no need to rush
*innocent smile* Her: hehehe what?
You: *quoting yourself / the situation* "Whaaaaaats my naaaame! Whaaaaaats my naaaame! Whoooos your daaaddyyy?!"
... Her: *giggle*
You: (while she is giggling / reacting to your humor) Have you ever been with a guy that has said that to you in bed? *hehe* <--- Notice how you are changing the subject + taking her mind off of her name and introducing a more... exciting topic?
Then at a later stage try and pick up on her name... Maybe her friends, phone, etc.. And just hope she doesnt ask again before you figure out what her name is / remember her name. :nervous:
Just a tip on how to NOT forget a girls name: When she tells you her name try and USE it often. Also what is a very good technique is to relate her name to something in your head. ie: If I met a girl called Bianca and did not want to forget her name, then I must just relate her to a "Beautiful." Then just repeat it a few times in my head. "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" "Beautiful Bianca" ...
When you all go to bed tonight, I bet you will still remember "Beautiful Bianca" just from reading it a few times.
If you just make a little extra effort to remember her name, you should find that remembering names will now go from a "problem that you HAD" to an "advantage that you have over other guys that dont make the effort" Change is a decision away.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.