How Do You Remain Positive in the Face of Dating Hurdles?

[Harry Wilmington]

Hey all:

Just did a podcast about how a negative attitude towards dating can affect your success. I have found that a lot of people on these boards are constantly bagging on women, or calling them slvts or saying how manipulative they can be... personally, I've experienced all these things, but I've still managed to keep my outlook on dating (and women in general) upbeat and positive.

But I'm curious: for those of you who have been through dating hard times, how have you been able to keep a positive viewpoint of women, dating, and relationships? Inquiring minds wanna know!

 

[VladPatton]

I'm curious as how others do it, as well. I just try to remain neutral, or don't even bother at all.

 

[Pretty_Tone]

Hey all:

Just did a podcast about how a negative attitude towards dating can affect your success. I have found that a lot of people on these boards are constantly bagging on women, or calling them slvts or saying how manipulative they can be... personally, I've experienced all these things, but I've still managed to keep my outlook on dating (and women in general) upbeat and positive.

But I'm curious: for those of you who have been through dating hard times, how have you been able to keep a positive viewpoint of women, dating, and relationships? Inquiring minds wanna know!

I focus on fun and not caring to much whether she stays or goes. because negativity branches off into other aspects of your life. just having a carefree fun attitude just seems to do it for me and if I did manage to some how have a bad day or something I dont go out that night.

 

[abe0]

Indiference ....thick skin....no expectations....have fun. Abe

 

[Rival]

I have learned to guard my heart. Never have them first in your life no matter what, or even top 5 imo.

Like others said, don't stress the things you can't control i.E (women)

Don't chase em replace em mindset