WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
I also ride my bike when I'm stressed or not stressed...but I actively search out harder routes when I'm pissed.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do you relieve stress?
- Thread starter BigDawg
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nice to see another cyclist in the forum. I've always felt that using exercise as a diversion was the best way to relieve stress and make you more fit at the same time. It definitely has a different outcome than just boozing it up.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
I come to this website and pick on the newbies! Just kidding.
WastelandWarrior
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How do you relieve stress? .... burn one.
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Go to my happy corner and cry 
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."She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i evict people.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
There's a sexist joke in there that's straining to get out y'know....
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i manage hud apartments. really.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
There's a sexist joke in there that's straining to get out y'know....
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I knew there was a reasonable explanation but my mind chooses to amuse itself in its own way...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
why does that sound so familiar?Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I knew there was a reasonable explanation but my mind chooses to amuse itself in its own way...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Does the voices in your head amuse you too?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
actually i wanted to say, spoken like a true man... however i thought that might be a mean thing to say ...Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Does the voices in your head amuse you too?
Stress is good for you - it shows you're working hard, and that you're human. But a lot of people deal with it badly.
By the way, these tips are useful for picking up women too, since they teach you how to deal with rejection, too. In fact, if you can deal well with stress, you can deal well with any negative emotion.
Important things to do:
Take the time to ask yourself why you're stressed.
Get in touch with nature by taking a walk or something. Fresh air relieves stress naturally.
Meditate/Pray, whichever is your persuasion.
Distract yourself by accomplishing some relaxing goal like playing a game or an instrument.
Take a shower.
Create a plan to eliminate stress in the future. For me, that plan involves getting women. Wish me luck haha,
D
By the way, these tips are useful for picking up women too, since they teach you how to deal with rejection, too. In fact, if you can deal well with stress, you can deal well with any negative emotion.
Important things to do:
Take the time to ask yourself why you're stressed.
Get in touch with nature by taking a walk or something. Fresh air relieves stress naturally.
Meditate/Pray, whichever is your persuasion.
Distract yourself by accomplishing some relaxing goal like playing a game or an instrument.
Take a shower.
Create a plan to eliminate stress in the future. For me, that plan involves getting women. Wish me luck haha,
D
If I'm stressed - meditation
When I'm FED UP WITH ALL OF IT - go for a LONG walk, or just about anything that involves using a lot of energy and agressivity. I think the perfect thing would be a martial art sparring with a friend.
What I don't do is to talk to any female friends I hate not having full control over myself >_<
When I'm FED UP WITH ALL OF IT - go for a LONG walk, or just about anything that involves using a lot of energy and agressivity. I think the perfect thing would be a martial art sparring with a friend.
What I don't do is to talk to any female friends
I hate not having full control over myself >_<I listen to aggressive music.
Shoot some motivation bursts with my 7.62mm assault rifle.
And soon gonna shout to my rookie squad. I'm in the Finnish army you know
Sometimes walks are good.
Sports are always good. Gives you really good feeling afterwards.
Shoot some motivation bursts with my 7.62mm assault rifle.
And soon gonna shout to my rookie squad. I'm in the Finnish army you know
Sometimes walks are good.
Sports are always good. Gives you really good feeling afterwards.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
HA what a pvssy.Originally posted by Pure Drive +
I cry myself to sleep because I got mad and hit the door too hard with my hand.