"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do you recover from a bad impressions

King Of Nowhere

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How do you guys recover from bad impressions? Sometimes people are drunk when they meet girls and rub them the wrong way, or they are not in the best of moods and a girl trys to talk to him (happened to me). I see her every day because we go to the same school ,and I was wondering if I can fix a bad impression. How do you guys do it? Stories would help too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GameTime76

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Is this a girl you like or do you feel bad making a wrong impression to someone?

I'd say when you see her again just smile and say Hi and go about your business.
 

PapiChulo

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First impressions are extremely hard to fix. I ve not been able to do so 100% with chicks. You get only one life as in a video game, one poster on here suggests. It's true. I ve made jokes about hookers and milfs with one interested chick, who apparently worked at a bible camp. The other stuckup chick has gotten turned off by my funny/****y comment and put me on the assshole list. No matter how hard you try you won't undo it completely, even if were to befriend Mother Theresa would not have changed their opinions of me. Women are dumb, you just gotta roll with it and not give a f6ck of what some broad may think. If she can't see who you are, no way she is worth to see her. This is how well their feminine "intuition" functions. The only impressions I ve fixed were the ones where people thought I was kinda unusual or perhaps too eccentric, too crazy - they would love me after a certain time which took abnormal amounts of personality, boldness and openness.
 
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Mike32ct

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I made the "video game with one life" analogy :rock: . I stand by that. You usually can't fix a bad first impression.

One of the most important tools in this game is a "clean slate.". If you scr@wed up with one girl, it's generally better to meet a new one that doesn't know you. You then have a chance to put your best foot forward.
 

st_99

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If it's someone you will see fairly regularly then absolutely you can fix
a bad first impression. On the other hand, if you rarely see them well then, its tough.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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