How do you re-initiate with a women you've nexted?

[Marker]

The weather is getting nice around here and the school I go to has a pretty small campus. In passing I am seeing a lot of women who I previously nexted during past semesters, girls who I may have gotten coffee with or went to the school's gallery with etc. Girls who I nexted because of boyfriends or because they were playing games mostly. When I next a girl I go total NC.

Is there any smooth way to start flirting with them again? I really don't like texting and sometimes I may only have a second or two to say something.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

This is an interesting post. Anyone have any ideas, Im curious to hear what people have to say...

 

[dvjackson]

Act like you don't remember them and are approaching them for the first time. If she brings up your previous interaction, just be like "oh yeah, now that you mention it..." and move on with the conversation.

Course this depends on how much time has passed, she ain't gonna buy it if it's only been a month since you talked.

 

[VladPatton]

I agree with bradd. You don't. You say a polite "hi" when they are close enough and that is that. Don't let the illusion of time fool you into thinking they sparked interest in you all of a sudden. But hey, you CAN try if you really wanna convince yourself.

 

[floydb25]

Generally you don't.. usually there's a reason you nexted them and that's because you weren't getting what you wanted from them or they were exhibiting bad behavior. When you go back, the same thing usually happens again, only this time around you've wasted even more time.

Otherwise, there's not much science to it. You just text them or call them like anyone else and ask them what they're up to. If they give you a sh*tty response, well then now you know why you nexted them to begin with.

Agreed.

 

[foreverAFC]

ive been experimenting a lot at work lately. im surrounded by all types of different attractive women all day long, ive come to realize, for the most part, you can act just as BPD and flakey as they do as long as you keep acting like its normal. you can ignore a girl one day and still talk to her the next day. you can re initiate pretty easily for some reason.

 

[goundra]

I'd have to have met TEN times as many women to ever forget a date. Now a casual conversation, or calls or emails, yeah, I can see forgetting those, after a year or so, or a few months or if you have a dozen or more new gals per month. I've got a helluva memory, tho.