"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you please a "non-romantic" woman?

steveoinssm

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Someone PLEASE help me...

I am dating a girl who I love to death. Honestly, I would die for this girl.

The only problem is, she hates anything and everything romantic!

She hates going out for dinner anywhere other then like A&W, freaks if I tell her I love her more then once or twice a day, and absolutely SNAPPED the one time I got her flowers (roses on our 4 months). Needless to say, she hasn't gotten flowers since.

All I am asking for, are some suggestions. I just want to make her happy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tekniq

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Get out of your hick town and meet some real women.
 

Triple T

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steveoinssm said:
I just want to make her happy.
Thats your problem right there...you want to make HER happy.
The solution is making YOURSELF happy. Ditch that B!itch.

Always look out for #1, yourself. :cool:
 

Warrior74

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if you aren't a troll, your very clueless. your too into her. you need your own life and she should be there to for you. Not you being there for her. Give her some space. let her breath man. your smothering her with your neediness.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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megs714

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girls like that are either not that into you or don't like being put on a pedestal, which you're obviously doing. back off a bit dude. just hang out.
 
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