"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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steveoinssm

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Someone PLEASE help me...

I am dating a girl who I love to death. Honestly, I would die for this girl.

The only problem is, she hates anything and everything romantic!

She hates going out for dinner anywhere other then like A&W, freaks if I tell her I love her more then once or twice a day, and absolutely SNAPPED the one time I got her flowers (roses on our 4 months). Needless to say, she hasn't gotten flowers since.

All I am asking for, are some suggestions. I just want to make her happy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tekniq

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Get out of your hick town and meet some real women.
 
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steveoinssm said:
I just want to make her happy.
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Thats your problem right there...you want to make HER happy.
The solution is making YOURSELF happy. Ditch that B!itch.

Always look out for #1, yourself. :cool:
 
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Warrior74

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if you aren't a troll, your very clueless. your too into her. you need your own life and she should be there to for you. Not you being there for her. Give her some space. let her breath man. your smothering her with your neediness.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girls like that are either not that into you or don't like being put on a pedestal, which you're obviously doing. back off a bit dude. just hang out.
 
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