"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do you please a "non-romantic" woman?

steveoinssm

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Someone PLEASE help me...

I am dating a girl who I love to death. Honestly, I would die for this girl.

The only problem is, she hates anything and everything romantic!

She hates going out for dinner anywhere other then like A&W, freaks if I tell her I love her more then once or twice a day, and absolutely SNAPPED the one time I got her flowers (roses on our 4 months). Needless to say, she hasn't gotten flowers since.

All I am asking for, are some suggestions. I just want to make her happy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tekniq

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Get out of your hick town and meet some real women.
 

Triple T

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steveoinssm said:
I just want to make her happy.
Thats your problem right there...you want to make HER happy.
The solution is making YOURSELF happy. Ditch that B!itch.

Always look out for #1, yourself. :cool:
 

Warrior74

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if you aren't a troll, your very clueless. your too into her. you need your own life and she should be there to for you. Not you being there for her. Give her some space. let her breath man. your smothering her with your neediness.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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megs714

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girls like that are either not that into you or don't like being put on a pedestal, which you're obviously doing. back off a bit dude. just hang out.
 
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