"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you play the Coquette (HOT/COLD) game?

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Like, how hot are your hot days? How cold are your cold days? Do you go day by day, or maybe a couple days hot, then a couple days cold, etc. etc.

Be specific and if you've experimented, tell us the reuslts.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Jukeboxhero
What the heck is this? I've never heard of this method before!
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Um, it's pretty basic. Alternating being...affectionate/interested with being cold/detached/not interested.
 
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...i'm assuming you mean push/pull, yeah?

in the short term first stages (the meet and attract), you want to thorughly use the push/pull in social and relaxed situations. I'm talking parties, clubs, bars, etc.

in the later stages (after 1st date) i really don't think that any kind of push/pull game other than not being too needy and clingy will either increase or decrease your chances of getting laid.
 
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For one day/ hour/ week, whatever... you act completely flirty and interested.

Then, when something doesn't go perfect you turn cold, disinterested, closed off from the other person... you can even go so far as to freak out on the person...

Then, you warm up agan
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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