"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you play the Coquette (HOT/COLD) game?

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Like, how hot are your hot days? How cold are your cold days? Do you go day by day, or maybe a couple days hot, then a couple days cold, etc. etc.

Be specific and if you've experimented, tell us the reuslts.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Jukeboxhero
What the heck is this? I've never heard of this method before!
Um, it's pretty basic. Alternating being...affectionate/interested with being cold/detached/not interested.
 

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...i'm assuming you mean push/pull, yeah?

in the short term first stages (the meet and attract), you want to thorughly use the push/pull in social and relaxed situations. I'm talking parties, clubs, bars, etc.

in the later stages (after 1st date) i really don't think that any kind of push/pull game other than not being too needy and clingy will either increase or decrease your chances of getting laid.
 

So pimp its scary

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For one day/ hour/ week, whatever... you act completely flirty and interested.

Then, when something doesn't go perfect you turn cold, disinterested, closed off from the other person... you can even go so far as to freak out on the person...

Then, you warm up agan
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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