"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you play the Coquette (HOT/COLD) game?

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Like, how hot are your hot days? How cold are your cold days? Do you go day by day, or maybe a couple days hot, then a couple days cold, etc. etc.

Be specific and if you've experimented, tell us the reuslts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Jukeboxhero
What the heck is this? I've never heard of this method before!
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Um, it's pretty basic. Alternating being...affectionate/interested with being cold/detached/not interested.
 
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...i'm assuming you mean push/pull, yeah?

in the short term first stages (the meet and attract), you want to thorughly use the push/pull in social and relaxed situations. I'm talking parties, clubs, bars, etc.

in the later stages (after 1st date) i really don't think that any kind of push/pull game other than not being too needy and clingy will either increase or decrease your chances of getting laid.
 
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For one day/ hour/ week, whatever... you act completely flirty and interested.

Then, when something doesn't go perfect you turn cold, disinterested, closed off from the other person... you can even go so far as to freak out on the person...

Then, you warm up agan
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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