"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you pick up older women at the gym?

Jordski

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Theres this woman at my gym, I think shes in her early 30s or something, but still bangin. Today when I was doing my sets while the gym was empty (only 2 of us at the 2nd floor) she came up to me made an eye contact and smile, and start doing pulldowns right in front of me for few sets untill some ******* came and ruined that intense moment. What should I do next time I see her? Im afraid shes married but didnt notice if she was wearing ring or no. I want me some older women..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maximus Rex

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The same way you would anywhere else.
 

Roni_88

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Theres this woman at my gym, I think shes in her early 30s or something, but still bangin. Today when I was doing my sets while the gym was empty (only 2 of us at the 2nd floor) she came up to me made an eye contact and smile, and start doing pulldowns right in front of me for few sets untill some ******* came and ruined that intense moment. What should I do next time I see her? Im afraid shes married but didnt notice if she was wearing ring or no. I want me some older women..
I really don't see why would you change your strategy depending on her age ?? .. just go for it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dutchmaster

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tell her form sucks and you can show her how to improve it lol
 

dutchmaster

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Actually her form is alright and she seems like she knows what shes doing lol.
hence the irony..

you're just using it as an excuse to talk to her and eventually touch her to show her the form. lol she knows your just hitting on her no matter what you say might as well make it cheeky
 

Building_and_Loan

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An opening I've used in the past at a gym I used to go to is "does this machine ever make you sore?" because it's relatable, I can just tell her it makes me sore sometimes if she asks why. If she's not on a machine, then just ask if whatever she's doing makes her sore, because if she's into you, it doesn't matter at all what you say.

It only matters that you say something. If she is as interested as you say she is, she'll probably smile enthusiastically and say something nonsensical like "oh yeah definitely, what about you?"

All I can say is that it has worked for me in the past. Oftentimes, guys get too hung up on having a perfect, killer opening line, but that's not going to get you laid. Just approach with confidence and talk to her like she's a normal person.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yewki

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An opening I've used in the past at a gym I used to go to is "does this machine ever make you sore?" because it's relatable, I can just tell her it makes me sore sometimes if she asks why. If she's not on a machine, then just ask if whatever she's doing makes her sore, because if she's into you, it doesn't matter at all what you say.

It only matters that you say something. If she is as interested as you say she is, she'll probably smile enthusiastically and say something nonsensical like "oh yeah definitely, what about you?"

All I can say is that it has worked for me in the past. Oftentimes, guys get too hung up on having a perfect, killer opening line, but that's not going to get you laid. Just approach with confidence and talk to her like she's a normal person.
This. Say pretty much anything that comes to mind. The important part is just doing it. For example any of the following works,

  1. "Your shirt is pink...I have pants"
  2. "Hi, we're both humans"
  3. "I like turtles. You?"

You could literally say any of the above and if she's interested, she'll make it easy for you.
 

RangerMIke

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All women are the same. Older... younger, it really doesn't matter. The only thing you have to remember is that you don't change. If you are a young guy hitting up an older women.... don't try to 'act' her age... vis a vis if you are older hitting up a younger woman.

If an older woman is interested in you, she is interested because she wants a younger guy... you start acting like a guy in his 30s, well then you aren't acting like a guy she might want. I see my older friends fvcking up with younger women by acting young.... She is attracted to us because we are older, then they walk up and start acting like millennials and she is turned off.

Nothing happens is a woman isn't initially interested in you. If you are an older guy that is probibly what she wants, if you are younger, she's looking for younger. The key is be congruent.
 
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