"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you pick up older women at the gym?

Jordski

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Theres this woman at my gym, I think shes in her early 30s or something, but still bangin. Today when I was doing my sets while the gym was empty (only 2 of us at the 2nd floor) she came up to me made an eye contact and smile, and start doing pulldowns right in front of me for few sets untill some ******* came and ruined that intense moment. What should I do next time I see her? Im afraid shes married but didnt notice if she was wearing ring or no. I want me some older women..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maximus Rex

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The same way you would anywhere else.
 

Roni_88

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Theres this woman at my gym, I think shes in her early 30s or something, but still bangin. Today when I was doing my sets while the gym was empty (only 2 of us at the 2nd floor) she came up to me made an eye contact and smile, and start doing pulldowns right in front of me for few sets untill some ******* came and ruined that intense moment. What should I do next time I see her? Im afraid shes married but didnt notice if she was wearing ring or no. I want me some older women..
I really don't see why would you change your strategy depending on her age ?? .. just go for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dutchmaster

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tell her form sucks and you can show her how to improve it lol
 

dutchmaster

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Actually her form is alright and she seems like she knows what shes doing lol.
hence the irony..

you're just using it as an excuse to talk to her and eventually touch her to show her the form. lol she knows your just hitting on her no matter what you say might as well make it cheeky
 

Building_and_Loan

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An opening I've used in the past at a gym I used to go to is "does this machine ever make you sore?" because it's relatable, I can just tell her it makes me sore sometimes if she asks why. If she's not on a machine, then just ask if whatever she's doing makes her sore, because if she's into you, it doesn't matter at all what you say.

It only matters that you say something. If she is as interested as you say she is, she'll probably smile enthusiastically and say something nonsensical like "oh yeah definitely, what about you?"

All I can say is that it has worked for me in the past. Oftentimes, guys get too hung up on having a perfect, killer opening line, but that's not going to get you laid. Just approach with confidence and talk to her like she's a normal person.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yewki

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An opening I've used in the past at a gym I used to go to is "does this machine ever make you sore?" because it's relatable, I can just tell her it makes me sore sometimes if she asks why. If she's not on a machine, then just ask if whatever she's doing makes her sore, because if she's into you, it doesn't matter at all what you say.

It only matters that you say something. If she is as interested as you say she is, she'll probably smile enthusiastically and say something nonsensical like "oh yeah definitely, what about you?"

All I can say is that it has worked for me in the past. Oftentimes, guys get too hung up on having a perfect, killer opening line, but that's not going to get you laid. Just approach with confidence and talk to her like she's a normal person.
This. Say pretty much anything that comes to mind. The important part is just doing it. For example any of the following works,

  1. "Your shirt is pink...I have pants"
  2. "Hi, we're both humans"
  3. "I like turtles. You?"

You could literally say any of the above and if she's interested, she'll make it easy for you.
 

RangerMIke

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All women are the same. Older... younger, it really doesn't matter. The only thing you have to remember is that you don't change. If you are a young guy hitting up an older women.... don't try to 'act' her age... vis a vis if you are older hitting up a younger woman.

If an older woman is interested in you, she is interested because she wants a younger guy... you start acting like a guy in his 30s, well then you aren't acting like a guy she might want. I see my older friends fvcking up with younger women by acting young.... She is attracted to us because we are older, then they walk up and start acting like millennials and she is turned off.

Nothing happens is a woman isn't initially interested in you. If you are an older guy that is probibly what she wants, if you are younger, she's looking for younger. The key is be congruent.
 
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