"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how do you pick up chicks at colleges?

rocco

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ok i'll be direct and to the point. ive been picking up chicks successfully over the internet for some time. its been really really easy, and very very convenient. all i had to do, was move my little fingers on the keyboard, and then rapport over the fone, and when we met up, we had sex. how easy is that. yeah, pretty easy.

so anyway, im getting sick of the internet dating thing. and ive gotten really rusty at picking up chicks in the "real-life" sort to speak.. because ive been concentrating on internet dating.

one thing ive noticed: its really about picking the right "pond" to do the fishing.
if you've got a good pond, with a lot of fish, and not much competition. then you've found the right pond. people are constantly fighting over eachother, in these highly competitive ponds. its because they associate high competition as good. so they stick with it. but really its about finding the pond, and less about how good your game is.

ive found that pond. and sh1t, just the other day, ive been getting quite a few approach invitations. and some girls have even made cold approaches on me.

how do i pick up chicks at colleges? is there a certain style that differs from what is written in the don juan bible? thanx.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rakishness

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*cracking fingers"

Thats an easy question with an easy answer. Join a FRAT or play college sports. If you do one or the other...you'll be offered so much putang you WONT know what to do with yourself. HAHAHAHAHAHAH
 

Babnik

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rakishness said:
*cracking fingers"

Thats an easy question with an easy answer. Join a FRAT or play college sports. If you do one or the other...you'll be offered so much putang you WONT know what to do with yourself. HAHAHAHAHAHAH


Absolutely true, but I, for example, absolutely hate frats because most guys there are d*cks!

I don't play official sports, but I play soccer and when I tell girls that I play soccer - they love it.

They will never see me in an official school game though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rakishness

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Babnik said:
Absolutely true, but I, for example, absolutely hate frats because most guys there are d*cks!

I don't play official sports, but I play soccer and when I tell girls that I play soccer - they love it.

They will never see me in an official school game though.
Same with me. I never wanted to join a frat. I felt like if I joined a frat it would be like I was paying for friends. That was just my feelings on it. Many frat boys that I have come across are d!cks. But I've met a few cool ones too.
It seems like everytime I come to this board someone writes..."how do I pick up this girl in college". And I kind of laugh everytime I read it. Because I can relate to many of their questions. But from a guy that went to a big school and just graduated last year...The answer is OH SO SIMPLE. Join a FRAT or play on a sports team.
Granted...most of us can't play college sports. But almost anyone can join frat(if you are into that sort of thing). If you can't do either of those. Just be little aggressive and play the numbers game. In time it will all fall into place.
 
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