"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how do you pick up chicks at colleges?

rocco

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ok i'll be direct and to the point. ive been picking up chicks successfully over the internet for some time. its been really really easy, and very very convenient. all i had to do, was move my little fingers on the keyboard, and then rapport over the fone, and when we met up, we had sex. how easy is that. yeah, pretty easy.

so anyway, im getting sick of the internet dating thing. and ive gotten really rusty at picking up chicks in the "real-life" sort to speak.. because ive been concentrating on internet dating.

one thing ive noticed: its really about picking the right "pond" to do the fishing.
if you've got a good pond, with a lot of fish, and not much competition. then you've found the right pond. people are constantly fighting over eachother, in these highly competitive ponds. its because they associate high competition as good. so they stick with it. but really its about finding the pond, and less about how good your game is.

ive found that pond. and sh1t, just the other day, ive been getting quite a few approach invitations. and some girls have even made cold approaches on me.

how do i pick up chicks at colleges? is there a certain style that differs from what is written in the don juan bible? thanx.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rakishness

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*cracking fingers"

Thats an easy question with an easy answer. Join a FRAT or play college sports. If you do one or the other...you'll be offered so much putang you WONT know what to do with yourself. HAHAHAHAHAHAH
 

Babnik

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rakishness said:
*cracking fingers"

Thats an easy question with an easy answer. Join a FRAT or play college sports. If you do one or the other...you'll be offered so much putang you WONT know what to do with yourself. HAHAHAHAHAHAH


Absolutely true, but I, for example, absolutely hate frats because most guys there are d*cks!

I don't play official sports, but I play soccer and when I tell girls that I play soccer - they love it.

They will never see me in an official school game though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rakishness

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Babnik said:
Absolutely true, but I, for example, absolutely hate frats because most guys there are d*cks!

I don't play official sports, but I play soccer and when I tell girls that I play soccer - they love it.

They will never see me in an official school game though.
Same with me. I never wanted to join a frat. I felt like if I joined a frat it would be like I was paying for friends. That was just my feelings on it. Many frat boys that I have come across are d!cks. But I've met a few cool ones too.
It seems like everytime I come to this board someone writes..."how do I pick up this girl in college". And I kind of laugh everytime I read it. Because I can relate to many of their questions. But from a guy that went to a big school and just graduated last year...The answer is OH SO SIMPLE. Join a FRAT or play on a sports team.
Granted...most of us can't play college sports. But almost anyone can join frat(if you are into that sort of thing). If you can't do either of those. Just be little aggressive and play the numbers game. In time it will all fall into place.
 
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